SOURCES

EPISODE 12 - WEDDING SHAMING

CONTRIBUTORS

Jennifer and Steven Van Elk

Wedding, editorial, and commercial photography.

Wedded podcast

Jenn and Steve's weekly conversation about wedding planning and marriage.

SUBREDDITS

r/weddingshaming

"A place to shame wedding themes, brides, grooms, wedding party, in-laws, outlaws, guests, Uncle Bob, vendors... you name it, we shame it!"

r/bridezillas

A place for stories of your favorite bridezilla!

FACEBOOK GROUPS

That's it, I'm wedding shaming

The original wedding shaming group, created in May 2018.

That's it, I'm wedding shaming (the non-ban happy edition)

Spin-off group.

That's it, I'm wedding praising

"that's it, i'm wedding shaming's wholesome, less bitchy sister. Same rules apply. Use this group to sing your wedding praises and plan your upcoming nuptials."

That's it, I'm ring shaming

"Definitely the group you heard about on the news."

WEDDING SHAMING

How ‘bridezilla’ became this summer’s biggest sexist slur Emine Saner, The Guardian. 15 Aug 2019.

"They tell bridesmaids to lose weight, force fiances into second jobs – and one reportedly asked a friend to have an abortion. Bridezilla stories are tabloid catnip, but what do they tell us?"

'BRIDEZILLAS'

How ‘bridezilla’ became this summer’s biggest sexist slur Emine Saner, The Guardian. 15 Aug 2019.

"They tell bridesmaids to lose weight, force fiances into second jobs – and one reportedly asked a friend to have an abortion. Bridezilla stories are tabloid catnip, but what do they tell us?"

SHAMING IN THE MEDIA

Rethinking What Success Looks Like Hana Schank and Elizabeth Wallace, The Atlantic. 19 Dec 2016.

"For women who left the workforce, their ambitions didn’t disappear so much as found a new target."